What do you need??

September 6, 2008 at 2:33 am | Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment
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From your elected officials? While reading blogs and articles about politics, I was just wondering what are the things that we want to see from our elected officials.  What issues do you find to be important to you? What things make you vote or not vote for someone? (Please refrain from starting religious fights because the reality is the thing that makes this country “great” is the ability to practice whatever your belief is without persecutions). And if you are from Canada please feel free to teach me something about your government and politics

If you are black or lower middle class or lower, shoot or both, what do you want from these officials? What do they have to do to earn your vote (because the reality is that they should be earning your vote by trying to help people, that is their damn jobs) If you are black, what issues that are prevalent in the black community would you like to see addressed.

Please if you read this please forward it.  It doesn’t matter if you are Republican, Independent, Democrat, or freaking belong to the party of oreo eaters, I want your opinion. Forward it to your friends, family etc because I want an unbiased view.

My political thoughts of the week

September 5, 2008 at 6:57 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
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One of my biggest problems with the election for the Presidency of the United States is that people place too much value on “People”. As humans we are ALL flawed. I continue to hear about people who vote on things like abortion but none of them are adopting children from this country. Then to me how can you be a Christian and a conservative. If you look at the story of Jesus, he believed in helping everyone even if they didn’t “deserve” it. Even the people who did not pull themselves up by their bootstraps, he still counseled, helped, supported. Isn’t that what Christianity is all about. Jesus hung out with everyone including the promiscuous, murders and tax collectors. He could hang around the “poor tasteless people” and the powerful pharacies. But in modern Christianity, this is lost.

 

Then after listening to how Sarah Palin said that people liked to be talked the same to “in Scranton and San Francisco.” Well the reality is that the needs of the people in Scranton and San Francisco are different. To put them in the exact same place is a disservice to all people involved. A person who actively listens to the people understands that what I need as a disabled mother living in a suburb of Chicago isn’t the same as what someone who lives in small town Mississippi needs. The people in Mississippi’s needs are different from what a military family needs. Understanding that is part of what makes a good leader. We need someone who can create a compromise that everyone gets their needs met without sacrificing the bigger picture. Someone who can go from the South side of Chicago, to the Gold Coast and still be able to see what each person needs in that area. An effective leader doesn’t throw us all in to one big box and expect us to act according to whatever box they placed us in.

 

Then the welfare and bootstrap comments amaze me. I know people who have received welfare. The reality is that the little 300 dollars they get every month is very small compared to the amount of corporate bail outs that our government gives out every year. No one wants to touch that though. While I believe that people should strive to survive on their own, everyone needs help and we all don’t have rich wives or families to support us. As a country, shoot as a people, we are responsible to each other. We should work hard to make sure that our neighbor is okay.

 

Many people think that blacks are voting for Obama just because he is black. I am sure there are some that are but the truth of the matter is, if they are that is understandable. If you aren’t black in America, then you have no idea what it is like. We are NOT all equal. We are NOT all treated the same. Now this isn’t to say that as a black person you can’t create something for yourself but it is to say that for me as a black woman to get the same amount of recognition as my white counterpart, I must work 2 to 3 times as hard. While I could go on and on, many will disagree with me or tell me how xyz but I know what my values have led me to, a place of no judgment. My values have led me to a place of recognizing that I don’t know everything and I don’t have to. Also, I realize that some of the things that I believe contradict each other. I accept that and basically focus on my reasons for MY beliefs instead of condemning the next person for having theirs.

A letter to the people

August 30, 2008 at 10:09 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment
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Okay, I know we all have differing opinions on the war. Some feel justified and some feel like we need to come from Iraq. This letter is not about that at all. This is about the way we treat the people who are left her when their spouse, sister, brother, mom, dad etc are here trying to keep life going. They need our help. One of my friends on a bulletin Board that I frequent told about how the people in her neighborhood are basically so damn self-centered. They don’t even realize that she is doing the job of 2 parents by herself. Now I realize that some people will have the arguement “well single parents do it” but the reality is that even the single parent has a parent or friend or something that will allow them the opportunity to do necessary things to maintain their sanity during something that is so unknown and scary. So I believe that it is all of our responsiblity to help out when we can. Contrary to popular beliefs we have a responsibility to each other. So know your neighbors and if you have a spouse of a deployed military person, offer to help them. Something as small as a meal, or offering to babysit for an hour or so can go far to helping remain level headed during a time of stress.

I am not funny

August 30, 2008 at 10:08 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | 3 Comments
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I have come to a conclusion. I am not funny. I read other blogs, I see the blatent jokes and I realize, I am not funny. I thought I would cry about it but then I realized…..Who Cares! Comedy isn’t for everyone and honestly when they were handing out the comedy gene, I was passed over.

Yes We Can (a small thought)

August 30, 2008 at 10:07 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
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After reading an article today and seeing the comments I was appalled by the way that people react whenever someone says that Obama is an inspiration to Blacks. I hear all the arguments that racism doesn’t exist. Then I hear the “this is reverse racism. Whites don’t hold back Blacks. You get what you give in life” Now while I do agree that if you work hard, you can achieve success regardless of what other people do, we must remember that racism isn’t dead. It hasn’t gone away. I mean lets be real, it wasn’t that long ago that people were hanging Blacks from trees with ropes. It wasn’t even 50 years ago. Truth be told that is still in our generations. So to say that in less than 50 years we have gotten rid of hundreds of years worth of hatred, disdain and mistreatment is to be delusional. I for one, choose not to live in that delusional world. The main people talking about how Racism doesn’t exist are the same people who have no meaningful interaction with black people. Talking to someone without allowing them the freedom to say the things that they truly think, doesn’t give the honest result that you are looking for. So on that note I will stop cause I don’t feel like going in to the whole race diatribe further. I have realized that most people can understand it, they just don’t WANT to.

Friendship

June 28, 2008 at 9:33 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
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Today, I have been thinking about friendship and the way that life is. See I know a lot of people. Some are people that I have know for many years and some are people that I have met over the course of the last few years. One thing is the same though. For me to call someone a friend is an important step. I believe that relationships regardless of friendship or romance go through the same motions.

1. Know of- This is a person you know of. You may not know much of anything about them.

2. Acquaintence- Someone you know in a general sense. This is like some one you went to high school with but never really talked.

3. Associate- This is where I believe most friendships actually falls. Its like the people at work. Yea, they know things about each other and they may even share a drink at the end of the day but they can’t be called a friend.

4. Friend- SOmeone who you know has your back. They will defend you, they are loyal, they don’t dump you just becuse they think there is something better.

5. Friends that are pretty much family- This is a person who for all rights and purposes is family. If you kill someone they are going to bring the chainsaw and the trash bags. They will tell you when you have messed up and still help you clean up the mess. They love you too much to see you in a bad situation.

This to me, breaks friendship down. Too many people don’t take the time to see if a person had pure intentions. Too many people allow judgemental braggards in to their lives to take up the aura that they possess. Put people in the right catergory and you know just how to deal with them.

A random rant about….

June 24, 2008 at 2:09 am | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

This is a rant about something that bothers me. I post on many different message boards from Cake baking, to parenting, to hair care (Nappturality.com is a lovely website for natural black hair care). The thing that bugs me is the way that some people just blatantly ignore you. I guess for me, I would rather a person just said, “Hey I don’t like you, that is why I ignore you”  It is so blatantly obvious that this person is ignoring me. This one screenname always does this. I wonder if I should say something but I don’t think it will go over well. So I will just continue to just be ignored. But when I notice it, I will def. write about it here.

“Imus” ask a question

June 24, 2008 at 1:59 am | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
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Today, I was reading about sports as I frequently do as a fan, and ran across some comments by Don Imus. Now while I expect nothing less from him, the comments on this article really bother me the most.

http://sports.aol.com/fanhouse/2008/06/23/don-imus-on-adam-jones-what-color-is-he/?icid=100214839x1204512957x1200206395

Now I understand the thought that Blacks while 17% of the population commit 60% of the crimes but that is leaving out a giant piece of this puzzle. How many Whites are not charged with crimes they commited and how many Blacks are charged wrongfully. I believe that once you take that in to account then the numbers would be significantly different. We live in a racist country. As much as we would like to believe otherwise, thats not a reality.  Now I could go on a tangent and discuss how this racist behavior truly prepetuates the crime because it takes the opportunities away from people when you don’t give people jobs because of their skin color etc.  Like now, how much has crime and suicide in the White community gone up since they have had to deal with the current recession? That would be something to look at. Now this is not to make excuses because of the actions of dumbasses but it is to say that we need to look at this more objectively without the natural, inferiority of blacks filter on.

So after much soul searching, I have come to a conclusion that while it may seem controversal is my opinon. That is that Integration, while in therory great, was bad for the Black community. It was like putting a band aid on a Gun shot wound.  See, you changed the things that Blacks could have with out dealing with the underlying issue of people believing that Blacks are inferior. 

Confessions of an Anti-hair person

June 17, 2008 at 1:49 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment
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I am Anti Hair. Now that isn’t to say I shave everything including my eyebrows off but it is to say that I HATE COMBING HAIR. See I have this kinky, nappy hair that while I absolutely adore it, I hate doing it. But lets be honest here, even if I had bone strait never kinky, easy as pie to comb hair, it still wouldn’t deter my disdain for all things hair related. So in an effort to minimize my work, I get my hair braided. This is a lovely idea in theory but practice is another thing.  I HATE it. I think God was laughing as he gave me a daughter. Then the funny thing is that this is an inherited affliction. Why you ask?  My mother HATES combing hair too, but she had 2 daughters. So any given year, my mom, sis or I have cut our hair to an inch all the way around in an effort to rid ourselves of the hair crisis. It hasn’t worked yet. And here is something for irony…… My brothers hair is so long it is to the middle of his back.  Talk about some backward stuff.

That time of year

June 17, 2008 at 2:02 am | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
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Anyone that knows me knows that from the middle of June until the middle of August is a tough time in life. This year I see that things have gotten better but there is still quite a bit of pain.  Its like a surgery scar, even though it heals sometimes there is still pain. Todays pain came from watching Jon and Kate plus 8.  Watching those children interact makes me miss CJ.  I know that he is still in my heart but I miss his physical presence.  I won’t dwell on the loss here but I will say, I believe that Rachel misses him too. To lose your child is a terrible experience I wouldn’t wish on anyone but I thank God for the eight days I was blessed with the prescense of CJ in my life. CJ is my families Guardian angel. And if I can’t have him physically here, I am happy to have him as my angel.

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